Be Selfish

Life has a way of pulling you in so many different directions and without realizing, you're so busy trying to make everyone around you happy, you forget about YOU. You're busy being a great friend, trying to stay present in your relationship and make time for your spouse, keeping your household together, trying to be superMOM, hosting guests at your home, being a shoulder to cry on when your friends are having a rough day, running a business(s), and being an ear that listens when someone close to you "need someone to talk to". Not once did you stop to think about SELF..YOU..it's as if you're always available for everyone and no-one takes the time to check on you to make sure you're ok.

It's time to be selfish. Be selfish with your time, your energy, your space, you aura, your zen. Make time to be available for YOU. Focus on SELF. Treat yourself to a day the spa, get a massage, mani/pedi, buy yourself something nice, get dressed and take yourself to brunch. You will then realize you are your best company. Put SELF first for a change (being a mom will make you feel like this is not possible), but a day without your children is a well earned. You deserve it!